We help you move from living on autopilot to living on purpose—so you can build a life you actually love.
Most people are living by default—doing what they're told, following paths that don't fit, wondering why nothing feels right.Welcome to Why exists to help you live by design. Not through more hustle or optimization, but through deeper self-awareness. We help you understand not just who you are, but why you are—so you can make choices that actually align with the life you want.This is about getting curious instead of critical. About understanding your patterns instead of repeating them. About building something intentional instead of accepting whatever falls into your lap.
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I'm Jason Van Dyke.In my early twenties, I was living haphazardly—no real plan, just doing what felt right. That approach cost me my first engagement and my dream job in the same year.As my boss escorted me out, he said: "Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions. Learn from this bad decision and never let it happen again."That moment changed everything. I spent the next five years rebuilding my life intentionally. Now: married, published author of two books, finishing my master's in counseling.Welcome to Why is how I help others make that shift—without losing what matters first.
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